A poem: For My Special Someone

I met a man six years ago

Who struck my heart with bow and arrow

A man with a strict ego

He, who dreams of a big tomorrow

After 2 years of being a happy single

My heart starts to wiggle

And it stops beating for awhile

And my face has no ending smile

Then he asked me to be his wife

And to be with him for the rest of his life

From that day on, two hearts become one

Nothing compares happiness to anyone

A whole shared life where we have to be

Has a bit of misery as what I see

For things, we have,are not that easy

Because the life we live is so chasey

We have been through bad and tough times together

But those things will never last forever

There will be rainbows a head of us

We need to reach it and it is a must

The warmth of safety of knowing you're there

Gives my body and soul a smile, they always wear

Saying goodbye is my greatest fear

That would be the last thing I wanna hear

All the wonderful memories we shared

Day by day will always be remembered

Maybe my actions and feelings are not that showy

But remember always, I love you my bb Louie.

Writer: April Marie Versario Jugan-Tayong

(Thanks my niece for sharing your inspiration)

The Best of the Holiday Season

          As we come nearing to the end of this year 2013, may we all come back to where we started this year. Since January up to this point in time, bountiful blessings have arrived in our life.

          On the other hand, we look forward to each of the seasons all throughout the year and most significantly, we cherish this holiday period as we await for the coming of our Most Trusted Friend Jesus. Consequently, I believe that it is but fitting for us all to think of all significant people who have journeyed with us on this year. Each moment spent with them is beyond any price and condition. 

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          Yes indeed we can somehow celebrate this joyous season by remembering in our hearts and minds those people whom we have encountered during the course of this year. In one way or the other, they have left imprints in our hearts and these markings resulted us to be better persons.

          Thus we all come into prayer for all of these significant and the less significant people whom we have shared our life this year. May they always enkindle in their hearts the true spirit of Christmas- the sharing of joy and life to everyone regardless of whatsoever differences that we have.

                                      


                    


                                                     

The Pain of Losing A Loved One

            Just recently, I have received the news that my uncle, Lucio, passed away. No details yet whatsoever to his passing away however I could feel the pain of losing him. Uncle Lucio is the next younger brother after my father, Conrado. 

          Years back then, when I was still studying at the seminary in Davao City, I vividly remember those times wherein I stayed in their house in Mandaue, Cebu, Philippines. Uncle Lucio and his wife, Auntie Lucia, were very kind to me. Some years back, my parents separated for irreconcilable differences hence everytime we had our holidays at the seminary, I often stayed with them in Mandaue.

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          Having no children of their own, I felt that both of them (Uncle and Auntie) were also excited and delighted to have me around and joined them for some days. We oftenly shared stories and food. My late father as well stayed with them when he went back to Cebu. These brothers were very close to each other.

          Indeed, I felt pain of knowing that Uncle Lucio is gone. However, I am also comforted by the words of our Divine Creator that whoever goes back to Him will be welcomed with His love and embrace. May you rest in peace Uncle Lucio. 

                                         

Want some words of Inspirations?

           Life seems to be that complicated for some.Yet for others, it is such a wonderful gift being given by somebody whose love for mankind is so great. On the other hand, there could be stances in your life that you will feel as if the world is so unfair to you- that nobody seems to take care for you. Consequently, you lose your sense of direction.

           On those moments, you need sombody to guide you the way. You need words of inspiration to lighten up your load. Below are some inspirational words that may be of help to you in those crossroads.

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          From this shared video, you can discover inspirational words of wisdom. One among them which can benefit you and brighten up your day is:

"If you can imagine it, you can create it, if you dream it, you can become it.- William Arthur Ward"

          Yes, it's so true that you have dreams in your life. And just like anybody else, reaching them lies on what direction you choose to trek in life. As those challenging circumstances come into your way,  you need not to lose the balance of your life. Just think and go back to your dreams then re- affirm them all in your life- embrace them, positively hold them into your hands and heart.   

          With such gesture, you will most likely change the events of your life. And in spite of all those foreseen and unforeseen trial  moments, with this fresh affirmation of yourself and your dreams, life's journey will turn to be an interesting one for you. Be positive and believe in your dreams.

                                              

A Heart That Cares

          Since then, it has been a part of my daily tasks to check on the daily news both online and on visual. Answering my thirst for knowledge, I make it a habit so that I can update myself with what's going on around me. As a result, it gives me mixed emotions such as joy, sadness, awe, etc to know how complicated this world has become. One of those things that catches much of my attention is the plight of innocent children being born and raised in poverty, hunger, and cruelty sometimes brought by mankind. Nevertheless, I would say that this one is universal hence beyond one's control. Beyond their innocence hides the richness of their future. Seeing such reality, my heart is moved with compassion and pity to think of such a sad fact in life.  

          Personally I know that if people would just genuinely desire it on their hearts to commit in assisting them from all their unhealthy situations then most probably, many will be blessed with a bright future instead. Such a moving scene when I witness them lingering on the streets doing nothing and exposing themselves to the dangers of the society like drugs and other vices. Though I understand that they are devoid of resources to trek a positive journey since they are born with parents with no jobs and in some cases with vices but I know and feel that something positive is still could be done.  

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          Moreover, the craving of my heart is to offer compassion to them in a sense hoping to bring them light and hope. I know that there are people out there who are also feeling the same way as I do. And it will continue to be my heart's dream for them that more kindhearted people will extend them a sense of light through the following: 

• providing them needs like school supplies and uniforms
• unendingly say prayers for protection for them
• extending them moral, psychological and spiritual guidance to mold their values and sense of direction
• giving them basic necessities such as food, medicine, toys etc.
• others that you can imagine that can positively influence them 

          May we always think and pray for the welfare of these children and let us hope that soon or later, this world can be a place so worthy to live in for them.


                            

HAPPY WEEKEND TO ALL MY LOVED ONES

          Today as I enjoy my weekend, I come to think of the many members of our clan, Jugan family, then I realized that members of our family have been scattered all over the world. Yet in spite of this reality that sometimes, loved ones are separated by miles and miles away from each other, the LOVE that binds us all will constantly strengthened the relationship against all odds.

          From the early beginning of the clan in Cebu City, generations have come and go and still, the foundations brougth along by the very first generations unceasingly serve as anchor to this family. Just like any ordinary family, at times the relationship among the members is challenged by misunderstandings, misconceptions, quarrels etc but similar to a hardened stone, the family hurdled them one by one. 

          Thanks to the wisdom of all the elders of the family who facilitated discussions, processings, meetings and other initiatives to patch out differences. On the other hand, the members also cherish together the wonderful and fun moments which also reflect the bond of true blood within them. Today's young generations will consistently have something to look up to from the elders. Thus, what is the joy and pain of every member becomes the same with the rest of the family.

                               

                                                          

LIFE WILL GO ON

          To all members and non members of JUGAN family:

          LIFE is a constant journey and everybody knows such reality. However as we journey towards life, we encounter its different flavors and we then realize that after all, it is not all joys that we share.....our experiences will tell us that it is both a sharing of joys and pains, ups and downs, yin and yang. 

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           No matter what will happen today and the day after, we all exactly know that there are members of our family who are constantly journeying with us. And as we journey with each other, we feel the comfort and joy of having a companion in our trip. The journey's load then becomes light and no matter how challenging and tricky it is, our being together will endow us strength and endurance to move on. Moreover, allow me to share this quote from 16quotes.com, it says 

"You have to take the good with the bad, smile when you are sad, love what you’re got and remember what you had. Always forgive but not forget, learn from your mistake but never regret, people change, things go wrong, just remember life goes on.- author unknown (16quotes.com)".

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          Be positve always. There could be differences in some of our members and as natural as they are, however it is best if we trace and settle them right away. We are all members of one group, JUGAN FAMILY, and we need to extend our support and love for every member of our family. All the differences that we have in attitudes, in age, in status in life- these are all superficials comparing to the same blood that flows among our veins. 

          We continue to pray for the welfare and growth of each member. To welcome each member, we embrace all our pains and share all joys. Thus, we exchange our constant and unconditional LOVE since it is LOVE that will continue to bind us all together.

APRIL MARIE JUGAN TAYONG AND FAMILY

          May we have the privilege at this time to know information on the family of April Marie Jugan Tayong. Epoy, as she is fondly called, is married  to Rudy Louie Borres Tayong. Their marriage is blessed with one child named Pacis Lux Jugan Tayong who is 5 years old. Pacis Lux's name is derived from Latin which means The Light Of Peace. He is presently studying at St. Albans school in Christchurch, New Zealand.

Epoy and family in Christchurch, New Zealand

         Epoy has three siblings as follows: Anna Marie, Alfredo Jugan III, May Marie and a half sister, Catherine Cabahug. Her parents are Alfredo Salibongcogon Jugan Jr. and Josefina Versario. On the other hand, Alfredo, Epoy's dad, has the following as siblings: Fe Jugan, Helen Elma Maglasang, Annie Edano, the late Edgar Jugan, Jory Jugan , and Luisito Jugan.

           Epoy's grandparents are Alfredo Jugan and Concordia Jugan who are both from Liloan, Cebu. Originally, they hailed from Luyang, San Remegio, Cebu. Epoy is a registered nurse (RN) in the Philippines. She finished her nursing studies from Southwestern University. 

Epoy and family in Liloan, Cebu

          Presently, she and her whole family is based in New Zealand. To hone her nursing skills, she had her training with Christchurch Polytechnic Institute of Technology at Burwood Hospital in Christchurch, New Zealand. With excitement, she is waiting at the moment for her annual practising certificate from New Zealand Nursing Council.  

          Epoy and her family decided to settle in New Zealand to have a better life and a brighter future. And soon, she will realize it by becoming a full pledged registered nurse. She started to realize her dream by studying Aged Care education 1 then followed it up with Advance in Aged Care Education. She worked as a health assistant/team leader while pursuing her dreams. Meanwhile, her husband works as a quality assessor in a manufacturing company named SKOPE Industries.

Epoy with proud Dad and Mom as well as siblings

          As with our other family members, let us include in our prayers Epoy's family so that they will reach the summit of their dreams. 

  

ALFONSO JUGAN AND FAMILY

          On today's post, we will know the family of Alfonso Jugan. Alfonso's family hails from Lambusan, San Remigio, Cebu Province. Actually, this is one family in our Jugan clan which is bigger in terms of members. The eldest in the family is Alfonso Jr. who is an ordained pastor of a congregation.

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          He is a widower and has 3 children. The whole family actually is composed of 14 members- really a big one. Out of this 14, there are 10 girls and 4 boys. The head of the family is Alfonso Jugan while his wife is Luisa Jumantoc Jugan. They're both deceased now. One of the siblings, Ester,  passed away due to cancer.

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          The youngest in the family is Loleth who is happily married to Steve Conklin of Michigan, USA. They have been together for 11 years and are presently residing in the USA.

SOME PHOTOS from ALFONSO JUGAN FAMILY:

Lolith Jugan Conklin

The siblings Espering, Ludia, Emma, Bebe and Linda

The whole Alfonso Jugan Sr. Family

the whole family including grandchildren

JERRY S. JUGAN AND FAMILY

          JUGAN members are all over the world. With the present means of communication that we have (facebook, twitter etc), it becomes easier and swifter for us to establish and to maintain the relationships among our family members.

          Every opportunity that allows all members to interact with one another is treasured. The latest one that was cherished by members most notably by those who were able to participate was the reunion held last May. 

          Indeed it was such a success that every participant's experience was well kept deep inside his/her heart. Moreover the family that our blog will feature at this time is the family of Jerry S. Jugan. 

          Jerry is married to Maria Gina T. Jugan. Their marriage is blessed with 12 children. The following comprise the whole family:

1. Jergin- eldest who graduated from her course last year and now is presently working;
2. Retchen with twin sister Reschen- both are married
3. Reschen
4. Michelle- who is on her first year college taking up BSBA
5. Janice- high school
6. Jerry Jr- high school
7. Jake- elementary
8. Redgie- elementary
9. Chrystel- elementary
10. Miles- elementary
12. Lycka

The 11th member passed away years ago and may his soul rest in peace. 

Jerry originally hails from Batad, Bogo City and now, he resides together with the family in Sibonga, Cebu Province. Let us include Jerry and his family in our prayers.

NICOLAS BULIBULI JUGAN and FAMILY

          Our featured Jugan family at this post is the family of Nicolas Bulibuli Jugan. He came from the family of Agripino and Prima Jugan. Dodo, as he is fondly called, comes from Luyang, San Remegio, Cebu Province. With all the joys in life, he is married to to Ninfa and their relationship is blessed with five lovely children.

           The members of the family are: Gesele, Agripino, Jupiter, Genalin and Nesadura. Nesadura or Nessan is based in Cebu City while Genalin currently works abroad. Nessan will soon reach her goal since she will have her graduation within the year.

          We journey with the whole family in all their undertakings. And just like any big family, we entrust them to our prayers that may their dreams and goals in life will be attained.

ANGELO JUGAN and FAMILY

         Jugan family is everywhere. I know that you would agree with me when i say that it is our joy to know more the members of this family so as to be more acquainted with one another. Thus, what I would like to share with you today is the family of one of our members- Angelo Jugan.

          Angelo's family hails from Padada, Davao del Sur. His better half is Isabelita Llanto Casals. Their children are Alan, Edgar, Ma. Fe, Alice, Noel, Anabil, Angelita and Ruel. 

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          Their places of residences are: Alan in Padada, Davao del Sur, Edgar in the same place, Alice in Gen. Santos City, Noel in Zamboanga City, and the rest (Ma. Fe, Anabil, Angelita and Ruel) are in Panabo City, Davao del Norte.

          Alan, the eldest in the family, is married to Nisie and the following are their children: Joanel, Joyce Crystal, Josie Cristy, and Jade. While Edgar is married to Rose Marie and the following are their children: Maryjean, Nyxa, Edro, Daryl, and Roy.

          The next in the family is Ma. fe who is married to Noli and their children are Boyliemar, Erica Mae, and Lady May. Alice comes next with Joey as her husband. Their children are Jay Angelo, Joseph Alan and Jamaica. 

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          Next is the family of Angelita and Rey. Their children are Dexterfeb, John Leur and Chereyfe. Finally the youngest is Ruel and he is married to Runalisa. Their marriage is blessed with their children Angelo and Isabelita.

          Indeed, it is a pleasure and a source of joy to know the members of Angelo Jugan's family. Whatever accomplishments they will have in their endeavors will also be our source of happiness. 

The Triumph of a Great Champion

          One of my favorite tennis players is Rafael Nadal and he did it again this time by topping the recently concluded Roland Garros tournament- the second of the annual four grand slam tournaments. He defeated his fellow Spaniard David Ferrer in the finals with the score: 6-3, 6-2, 6-3. 

          Just to share with you a little background of this annual event, here is a part of an article of this famous event:

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          The French Open, often referred to as Roland Garros (French: Les internationaux de France de Roland-Garros or Tournoi de Roland-Garros,  named after the French aviatorRoland Garros, is a major tennis tournament held over two weeks between late May and early June inParis, France, at the Stade Roland Garros. It is the premier clay court tennis tournament in the world and the second of the four annual Grand Slam tournaments – the other three are the Australian Open, US Openand Wimbledon. Roland Garros is the only Grand Slam event held on clay and ends the spring clay court season.

          It is one of the largest events in tennis and by far the largest clay-court tournament.^[2] Because of the slow-playing surface and the five-set men's singles matches without a tiebreak in the final set, the event is widely considered to be the most physically demanding tennis tournament in the world. (Source-Wikipedia the free encyclopedia)

          Thus, the recent victory of Nadal is a major one since it happened in one of those major tennis annual events. What made it more historic and meaningful for Nadal is that it marked his 8th triumph of this said tournament thus earning him the title of the first player to win 8th titles on this famous tournament. 

          Moreover he is such a powerful player that his arsenal is consists of the following: "His formula includes speed, balance and steely defense. It features a left-handed forehand that he can curl inside every line with sonic speed, or hit with so much topspin on it that it’s near impossible to respond to with a winner off of it if the shot lands deep.

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It includes a twisting serve that usually results in a weak reply that can be buried for a winner. It includes a competent net game, an efficient drop shot, a steady, effective and improving backhand and a library’s worth of strategic knowledge." - Roland Garros 2013 official site.

          Thus, the world celebrates with this great Spaniard as he reasserts himself as one of the greatest players of the game. He joins the likes of those great names in tennis such as Rod Laver, Bjorn Borg, Pete Sampras, John Newcombe, and many more. What made it sweeter for him since he just came back from a long break due to his injury. Welcome back and congratulations Nada.

                                 

Meet our FAMILY (Ma. Morena P. Villanueva and family)

          It is with great joy that I will feature in my blog today the family of Maricar Reyes. Her full name is Ma. Morena P. Villanueva while her husband is Leonides P. Villanueva. They have 2 girls named Kristen and Dean Irish. As the eldest between the two, Kristin is 23 yrs. old while Dean is 15. Maricar's mom is the daughter of Eulalia Alchombre Jugan.

           Both Maricar and Leonides feel their joy and success in being parents to the two girls most notably that Kristen has completed her studies in the field of  nursing. Moreover she finished it at Cebu Doctor's University last 2010. We are one with them in this success in their marriage. We will constantly remember that any member of our clan who attains any successes in whatever form will also serve as our own inspiration to strive further to become positive contributors to our clan and to our society.

          She now is one of our nurses in our clan. On the other hand, Dean is presently on her 3rd year in her high school studies in the prestigious De La Salle College in Toledo City.

          The whole family is residing in Kalubihan, Ilihan, Toledo City. Maricar was sharing that her two kids are her constant inspiration. We thank you Maricar and your whole family for sharing your story with us all here. And we will continue to extend mutual support to you and to all members of our clan so that we will jointly cherish the gift of our life.

TRACING BACK THE ROOTS

            It is always a source of joy for me to receive updates whatsoever regarding members of our clan, the Jugan family. Every event in any member's life  leaves a significant imprint even the ordinary ones. It is just like I'm also personally proud of whatever the members achieve in their life. 

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           Related to this one, tracing back our family's roots to their very source which involve those events in history plays a major impact on us since they allow us to strengthen the bond of ties among us all. Knowing altogether the sacrifices done by our elders on our behalf will give us meaning and strength to persevere also in our present journey. Mirroring from our elders is a very effective way of teaching and passing the positive side of things to the younger generations.

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          Our loved ones most importantly our grandparents are the very source of our becoming who we are now. With all their contributions to the life history of the clan, they emerge as the immediate stock of influence in our life. Moreover, others such as friends and officemates merely serve as secondary contributors to our development and process as persons. Thus it is but always fitting to look back and remember those  special memories we treasured with our elders. 

JOB WELL DONE GUYS

         Last May 17, 2013, JUGAN CLAN reunion was successfully held in Maravilla, Cebu. Many members of the clan coming from different parts of the Philippines as well as those who were coming from abroad participated and shared their precious time. The whole event was started with a mass. Then afterwards, several activities took place such as the socio cultural activities in which members of the different families shared their individual talents to the joy of all participants.

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          To continue the momentous event, participants gathered together to take their meal. They had a great time enjoying various Filipino delicacies such as lechon and other delicious recipes. Moreover, the activities continued until the night and everyone had so much fun. It was further decided that Jugan reunion will be done annually. 

          For doing extra efforts to realize this year's reunion after a few years of absence, the whole clan expressed their gratitude to all those who did a magnificent job in planning the event. Thus in behalf of the whole clan, we therefore extend our heartfelt gratitude to all those who spent time together for the planning:

DANNY JUGAN LUCMAYON

HELEN JUGAN GARBANZOS

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LOLA NONING

HELEN JUGAN

others

         May we continue to mutually support each other so that all our dreams and endeavors will become a reality. In unity, we all stand together.

JUGAN CLAN REUNION 2013......more fun.....

          Here are additional photos taken during the JUGAN CLAN REUNION 2013. Enjoy them and share the fun. The reunion was held last May 17, 2013 at Maravilla, Cebu.

LOLA NONING .......

As early as this day, we look forward to JUGAN CLAN reunion next year. May our reunion become an instrument for us all to strengthen our bond of love and unity for one another.

JUGAN CLAN REUNION 2013.....TIME OF JOY

          Reunion is one of those life events that allows loved ones to get together and share all those good times......thus here then are some photos on the just concluded JUGAN CLAN reunion 2013 held at Maravilla, Cebu. We express our gratitude to Danny Jugan Lucmayon and the rest of the working group for making this year's reunion a very successful one.

 Let us continue to cherish those moments of being together and may they allow us to grow more into a deeper relationship with one another.